I was always on the pill due to my period never stopping.
The first time I lost my virginity it was against my will and no condom was used, I was only 12 (he was 17+ I can't be 100% sure on his age though) and at 12 I wasn't on the pill yet. That god nothing like a STD or pregnancy occurred.
When I was 15-18 I had 1 partner.
We always used condoms and I was still on the pill, I also used condoms for oral sex.
There was 1 more person after that but it was with a condom/pill.
I met my husband and I was still on the pill, he was a virgin, I wasn't in a rush either I was having some more counseling after I started having some anxiety over what happened to me when I was 12, even though I received counseling for that when I was 12 as I got older it effected me differently.
So we actually didn't have sex until our wedding night, we both got tested for STD's before the wedding so on our wedding night we had no protection, that was the first REAL time I had unprotected sex.
We have been married for 4 years now and other than when we were trying for a baby we have used condoms and I'm in the mirena, there have been a few times since getting the mirena that we have ditched the dom, but 98% of the time we use condoms.
The reasons being
- really do not want to fall pregnant.
- condoms seem to make the experience 'Last longer'