Hi just in need of some help from mums who have been there done this as I just dont have people I want to talk about this with.
Im really not dealing with this at all, Ive been with DH for 10years and now it is over I dont want it to be but he wants no part in making it work. How do you just start living again. I will be moving out as we were moving closer to family so I could get help with the kids on uni and work days and now its just me and the kids moving. I dont no what to pack what I can take I feel like Im being made to start over again when really all I wanted was to make it work.
I have found the last few night have been the worst in the day its fine I have work,kids and the house to keep my mind off things but at night it hits me I am alone all alone while he gets to chat up the girls at his work and just move on. If I were a man it would be ok for me to just move on but being a mum I feel like Im ment to put everyone in front of me still.
I really just want to move on with my life and put all this crap in my past but with it being so raw and him being the one to end it I feel Im stuck still trying to fix things even if I know its over I just dont no how to be single.
How did you move on and was there anything that made it really sink in for you that it was over.