My fiancé and I always debated between the get married or have children first - we decided on children because I was 30 at the time and wanted to get cracking and always wanted kids and so did he plus planning a wedding sounded hectic (I have a mammoth family).
We are glad we did cause our first was ectopic and i lost my left tube and on discovery of endo my most likely option was ivf. 1 yr on from my ectopic we are pregnant from our 2nd rnd of IVF - I'm so lucky we made the decision on kids first as we would not of discovered we had fertility issues for another 1.5-2yrs on! We also would of been living back in NZ where ivf has a 18mth wait list otherwise its 13k a cycle no medicare rebates etc!! With low amh too it would of been so much harder.
I guess everything happens for a reason and is often for the best