Thank you for taking the time to reply.
I should point out that the example i gave you happened as i was walking through the door to pick her up. It didnt happen during the day.
123 magic is brilliant, it works for the small stuff. I usually only have to get to two. Unfortunately when she gets this dark look in her eyes, it does not help at all. Its like she is possesed.....
I use the naughty corner also. She actually listens to me when i tell her to go to the naughty corner even in mid tantrum. It doesnt help the situation - only relocates it...
DD goes absolutely mental on sugar so it is a major nono. Even an over ripe banana can make her go loopy.
And Wine - oh what would i do without my best friend!!!
So do you think i should just try and ride it out or should i try to get professional help?