This is kind of long, sorry.
We're currently ttc #2 and are pro-vax. With dd, we asked our families/close friends to make sure they were up to date with their vaccinations... All good.
But I have since made a really good friend and I respect that she doesn't vax herself or her children, although I don't at all agree with her reasons as she has admitted (before she realised that I am vocal about vaccinating) that she stopped vaccinating purely because her friend told her it was bad, she hasn't researched at all.
My issue is, I want to give my newborn the lowest risk of catching anything before he/she is vaccinated. My friend will want to bring the kids to visit at the hospital when I have bub, no doubt wanting a cuddle and we regularly catch up (atleast once a week). I don't want to lose our friendship and cause conflict, but I don't feel comfortable having a newborn around them heaps.
How would you handle the situation?