Have you confronted him about it OP? Maybe just kindly ask him why the sudden change? And if hes over stepping the boundaries he needs to know, men dont always pick up on these things!
Enjoy it while you can it may NOT last long ....
I'd be wondering what he was up too/after because it would be very unusual for my hubby.
Either he's cheating (could even be emotionally through fb, email, text) and he's feeling guilty or he's very worried and thinks maybe you're cheating if you're close to other guys or something.
At least those are the two I'd think. When my ex knows I'm hanging out with guys he's always so clingy (were good close friends so I know it's just him getting jealous). When he cheated on me he seemed more distant but it can go either way when they're cheating.
Why dont you just ask him why hes suddenly so affectionate? Lol
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Sounds like he's insecure about something sass. Insecure or nervous?
Could he be worried that you might get some more attention from others and trying to reinforce how much you mean to him?
From what you have written on BH including this post I would say he is an insecure person.
I don't mean for this to sound rude but you have lost a large amount of weight, gained confidence and he now has to up his game.
He is afraid that you will leave him and probably doesn't have high self esteem.
Your attitude towards yourself has changed and he can feel that.
He doesn't even really use FB so I doubt that, and I have full access to his phone so any cheating would have to be pretty covert. Wouldn't he be DISTANCING himself from me if he did that anyway? Like I said, I don't think that's a possibility anyway.
My weight loss... has been at the same spot for ages. I don't know why I'd instantly become more attractive recently when I've been the same weight for a while.
I doubt a proposal is in the works. Highly doubt it.
Um... I can't remember what the other suggestions were.
Oh yeah, ask him. lol.
I have. I'm not a twit who wouldn't dream of asking things. lol. He just says he's always loved me, blah blah. He doesn't even acknowledge he's being all weird.
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My partner is the same. He has periods of not being affectionate but lately and for a while he is just over the top.
I think the problem for us is that I am not affectionate really. DP gets more full on, the more I don't return the same level of affection. But it back fires as it makes me less affectionate the more full on he is.
I don't know if that makes sense but might provide an answer.
I don't agree that e sounds like he is cheating. He just sounds insecure or he is going to propose!
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