I have two gorgeous boys and my partner has one too. And we have an amazing baby girl together. My boys adore my partner but there are massive issues with my step son.
His mother hates both my partner and I. We even had to get a protection order against her which she has been breaching. It's not an easy situation.
For two and a half years I have been trying to make this family unit work. And the only difficult part about it is my partners son. He's so rude to me, refuses to listen to anything I say, plays my partner and I against each other, destroys my boy's toys, says nasty things about my puppy and about all of us.
He's only a child and I know his mother is in his ear saying nasty things too but I'm at a loss. I'm starting to feel like he will never accept us and more specifically, me. It's starting to cause so many problems. After putting in so much effort I'm always on edge when he's here. I'm scared there is no solution and it will drive a wedge between my partner and I
What do I do?!