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    ...your relationship/marriage was done?

    I'm so lost and confused right now!

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    13 months after my son was born. You leave, build a new life and be happy. It hurts but it's better to be apart and happy than together and miserable, for everyone involved.

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    When you feel hopeless and question why you're with them.

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    When I couldn't stand the thought of him being anywhere near me, when anything he did annoyed the crap out of me. I basically hated him and wanted to be as far away from him as possible.

    Also when I asked him to give up drinking (he's an alcoholic) and go to marriage counselling and he refused.

    I think in your heart you'll know when you're done.

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    For me it was when I stopped caring. Stoppe caring about the other women, stop caring he never spent time with his family, didnt speak anymore because I had nothing to say. I just really did stop caring. It took a lot of time to get to this point and didnt happen instant, but yeah.

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    When the bad times outnumbered the good and I couldn't imagine ever being happy again...

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    I left him at the strt of the year and we aren't even living together again yet. I guess that's a big sign right there. That I'm feeling like this and we arnt living together.

    Sorry il fill you in more. I left him at start of year and around June we started slowly working things out.

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    When he sleeps with you the night before and ignores you the whole next day at a wedding...

    That's when you know your done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mum2mj View Post
    I left him at the strt of the year and we aren't even living together again yet. I guess that's a big sign right there. That I'm feeling like this and we arnt living together.

    Sorry il fill you in more. I left him at start of year and around June we started slowly working things out.
    Working things out takes time. Have you thought about counselling ?

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    We have tried counselling but its just going back to exactly how it was before.


 

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