I'm in Melbourne, so unfortunately can't check out the SANDS group you are going to tonight but let me know how it goes as I may be interested in going to one in Melbourne a little down the track. I do want to check out their online support group, but it is on facebook and I have deactivated my facebook for now (because I am overseas from so many friends and family there are too many people who knew I was pregnant but wouldn't know we lost Clem unless I did a status update, I didn't want to risk having to get questions asking how my pregnancy was so I just decided to stay away for a while). I had thought the SANDS online group would be more like a forum like this. It is the same with the Teddy Love Club Pregnancy Loss Group, they are only on facebook as well.
I was surprised to hear that you received your baby's post-mortem results in the mail as our hospital has booked an appointment for Jan. 7th to go over everything with us. Did anybody go over your results with you? It would be distressing to just get it in the mail and have to google everything. Although I torture myself with google right now, googling everything I have done this pregnancy trying to see if that is why she died. The midwife who delivered Clem has checked up on me a few times and told me off about googling. I pray for answers from the post-mortem but then at the same time wonder if any answer will make me feel better.