My DPs boss is looking for a GF. He is a lovely man, but my gawd he is stupid!
He joined dating sites. He has VERY high standards. He is in his 50s, finatially stable in his own job, he has a lot going for him.
Unfortunately he seems to attract freakin gold diggers. Women over seas looking for a way into Australia, telling him to send money over to go shopping and buy her tickets to Australia and all sorts. The poor man has tried meeting a lady down south from here but she apparently stood him up.
This one lady in Malaysia asked for money, and the softy he is sent her a couple hundred. She then says to buy her a tcket over here, so he did. Then she is saying she needs about 600USD for medical tests before she can fly out. THEN she says she needs more for shopping to 'prepare' for when she meets him.
She is all "Oh baby, I love you. I want you" and he thinks he has found the real deal. Because he is illiterate he has trouble chatting online with her, my DP has been talking for him some days at work and tonight he was on for him at home. I jumped on and read it through and i just cant believe the BS she has been saying.
I feel so sorry for this man He is being played but he is just so desperate he doesnt want to see it.
If he didnt have such high standard.... You know, young, slim, gorgeous... So something like a 25 year old with a stunning body, he would find a lovely older lady his age and could possibly meet *the one*.
I just want to help him lol but doubt he would like anyone I find for him because I have more realistic standards lol
Just a vent really.
I know now of 4 men who have 'mail order brides' Each to their own as long as they understand what they are getting into, he obviously doesnt.