I have no routine (only bath at 530pm) because every day and every night is different, nap time and feed times vary and the past 3-4 days DD has been very clingy and comfort sucking. She has a dummy which she will only take 8 times out of 10. I have to hold her to settle her to sleep and even then she's still fighting it, she use to self settle throughout the night but last night she didn't and cried in her bassinet until I got her and brought her into our bed. Tonight it's taken me hours to settle her and she is finally as sleep but after much hard work. She doesn't have wind as she is a great burper - and farter but have given her a little gripe water just incase. She sees a chiro so no issues with her being uncomfortable.
I'm so worried that she will get bad habits but the only way to settle her is in my arms tightly or on my boob! I've tried swaddling, rocker, bouncer everything and nothing seems to work. I want a routine but don't want her to cry herself to sleep and this week its just gotten worse, i haven't beeb able to do anything because as soon as I put her down off me she wakes and cries.. Sometimes I'm lucky and she stays asleep but that very rare.. Help?!