I'm really getting sick of feeling pressured to go into labour, I can't make it happen and I'm only 39+2 anyway so not overdue!
DF's Nan passed away from terminal cancer and he didn't go to say goodbye last week because it's 7 hours away and he didn't want to leave incase he missed it.
The funeral is tomorrow and he's not going, again because he's worried about missing the birth.
But I've been getting phone calls asking if I'm in labour yet and to make sure I let people know when I am (immediate family so of course I would!) and that they need to know if DF is going. He's already said no and that's his decision but I'm sick of people being disappointed, this is including DF.
I can't go down with him because I have my OB appointment tomorrow and I can't just pick and choose appointments and I don't want to risk going into labour elsewhere, not getting my VBAC and being stuck away from home and having to then sit in a car for 7 hours after having a c-section.
That probably sounds selfish but I'm not doing it, I spent 11 weeks 4 hours from home when I had the girls and I only want my OB at my hospital.
Ahh anyway vent over but jeez people she'll come when she's ready and believe me I want her to the most!