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    Default So angry!!!! VENT

    If I were the OP I think I'd rip the "friend" a new one and make them accountable for their. Actions and liable for the damage otherwise they may think they've done no wrong and think its acceptable to do that
    I've had kinda the opposite. I had to leave up go qld when heavily preg. In. Rush after DO finished work with 4 yr old in tow Hadn't gotten chance to put dishes away that we're in drainer or vac my "friend" came to feed my cats for me and empty litter and made nasty comments to others as to how trashed my house was. That it smelt of cat. Kinda get that when litter isnt emptied That my room wasn't clean which they had no business going in hence why I closed doors. That I hadn't vacuumed or put away my dishes. Or put folded clothes away So it was trashed. She fed cats for me didn't change litter though and then made nasty comments to other friends who told me what she had said. I confronted her and she denied what she had said. needles to say I don't ask anyone to feed cats anymore just leave out enough food and water for them

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    Default Re: So angry!!!! VENT

    Omg jugamoe. If that was a true friend you'd of come home to a clean house! (except for maybe a pan in the sink ;p)

    Spent from my dome. Excuse autocorrect

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    Default Re: So angry!!!! VENT

    I'd be angry too! How rude, and awful for your boy too

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    Quote Originally Posted by Izy View Post
    Omg jugamoe. If that was a true friend you'd of come home to a clean house! (except for maybe a pan in the sink ;p)

    Spent from my dome. Excuse autocorrect
    Yerp needless to say we aren't really friends anymore. Ill say hi if I see her and that's about it.

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    Guess that's why his current living arrangements are what they are. Who would want to have someone like that living in their house?! Even if they pay through the teeth for rent- I still wouldn't have them in my property!

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    Default So angry!!!! VENT

    U have to say something. U can't let ppl like that think that it's ok to treat ur property like that. If you don't he/she will go on thinking its acceptable.
    What a jerk!!

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    [QUOTE=jagamoe;6916843]If I were the OP I think I'd rip the "friend" a new one and make them accountable for their. Actions and liable for the damage otherwise they may think they've done no wrong and think its acceptable to do that
    I've had kinda the opposite. I had to leave up go qld when heavily preg. In. Rush after DO finished work with 4 yr old in tow Hadn't gotten chance to put dishes away that we're in drainer or vac my "friend" came to feed my cats for me and empty litter and made nasty comments to others as to how trashed my house was. That it smelt of cat. Kinda get that when litter isnt emptied That my room wasn't clean which they had no business going in hence why I closed doors. That I hadn't vacuumed or put away my dishes. Or put folded clothes away So it was trashed. She fed cats for me didn't change litter though and then made nasty comments to other friends who told me what she had said. I confronted her and she denied what she had said. needles to say I don't ask anyone to feed cats anymore just leave out enough food and water for them[/

    OMG THAT'S AWFULL

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    Well I just keeping finding more and more things I found a pile of photo albums behind the couch WTF I cannot understand why they would firstly look at our photos and secondly go through my cabinets to find the albums as they are put away from view in closed drawers what a total invasion of privacy
    Chocolate all over the kids very expensive bean bags.... Grrrr I'm so effen mad, his kids know the rules in my home and they totally broke them all and sadly their father was disrespectful enough to allow them to behave like a pack of wild animals in someone else's home. Judging from the photos he has posted on Facebook he had quite a good time at our expense. DH is planning on having a little chat with him about how much he has hurt and disappointed us. I can accept food being eaten even a little bit of mess being left, I could even understand if something was accidentally broken and he had the balls to tell me and apologise but I cannot wrap my head around how badly used I feel right now. On a positive note the IPod dock was still under warranty so DH returned it to the store today and had it replaced with a new one

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pippy&Woof View Post
    That must be very upsetting for u, all of u! Maybe u could take a few photos of the damage (and the broken iPod dock) and email them to him asking him to explain..?
    I would do this, so he can't say you are exaggerating or that he doesn't know what you are talking about. What you list is completely unacceptable and disrespectful. Broken glass, your son's deck broken, chairs damaged. it sounds like he had some big parties or at least got pretty rotten while you were gone.

    Get your DH to send him the pics via email or FB and ask why this all happened...

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    omg, this guy is the biggest pig. I certainly wouldn't let him slip by without being told.

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