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    He tells me he doesn't, I believe him too because he is far too busy. I on the other hand like to have a look every now and then. We have looked at it both together and it wouldn't bother me if he was looking at it, within reason.

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    I'm not sure. I have never caught him so far, but I do saw some porn sites in his browser history (xHamster, theporndude,...). I don't mind, since every guy does this, I assume.
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    I don't believe he does. If he were though it wouldn't bother me as long as it's not a daily routine!!

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    We watch it together as I also enjoy occasionally. He doesn't need to hide it from me, that I would have a problem with. I think the "type" of porn being watched is also a factor.
    If I don't like it we stop watching and move on to something I do.

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    never seen anything on browser history etc. I don't think it interests him for the most part. he follows a lot of artsy photographers on Instagram though and I often see arty pics of model types in is insta feed. after much grilling from me, he once admitted to looking at it and jerking off lol. so he prob does do it but I don't think it's often. I'm ok with it I guess, of course I'm not thrilled at the idea but he's human and it's harmless. our relationship is great so I trust him. also, I've been with a porn freak in the past so a bit of model gawking on insta is harmless in comparison.

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    Yep, sometimes i do too. Doesn't bother me.

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    I have a different attitude to this. My DH watches porn maybe once every few weeks. I have a very open mind when it comes to these kind of things. He goes to strip clubs with his friends when they come to visit (maybe once a year). I have been with him to strip clubs. He tells me when he's had a lap dance.

    I have complete and utter trust in him. I believe if you try to totally control and force your beliefs on your partner it will only backfire. He has a Christmas party in the city for work every year and there are men at his workplace who's wives won't let them go because there will be other women and alcohol. What are they trying to achieve? If you can't trust your husband to go to a work party then your relationship is in trouble.

    Because he has this freedom he feels open to tell me everything. He tells me if he finds someone attractive, and I tell him if someone is attractive. Obviously he is not allowed to engage in other sexual acts, but it's human nature to still find other people attractive. Sex is only one part of our relationship...

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    Quote Originally Posted by bugslife View Post
    I have a different attitude to this. My DH watches porn maybe once every few weeks. I have a very open mind when it comes to these kind of things. He goes to strip clubs with his friends when they come to visit (maybe once a year). I have been with him to strip clubs. He tells me when he's had a lap dance.

    I have complete and utter trust in him. I believe if you try to totally control and force your beliefs on your partner it will only backfire. He has a Christmas party in the city for work every year and there are men at his workplace who's wives won't let them go because there will be other women and alcohol. What are they trying to achieve? If you can't trust your husband to go to a work party then your relationship is in trouble.

    Because he has this freedom he feels open to tell me everything. He tells me if he finds someone attractive, and I tell him if someone is attractive. Obviously he is not allowed to engage in other sexual acts, but it's human nature to still find other people attractive. Sex is only one part of our relationship...
    I have a very similar view to this. I'm fine with it. I look at it on occasions, he looks at it, although at the moment more than he should haha cause I'm heavily pregnant with placenta previa and tired so I'm fine with him getting his satisfaction there for now. If it interferes though with our time I would get annoyed.

    I am under no illusion on the fact he is male and looks at other females from Time to time, he is only human, but we openly chat about all this type of stuff. I completely trust him.

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    Old thread, but interesting topic.
    Yes, he does. I do too, and we do together. As with some PP, we tell each other if we find someone attractive etc. We both get jealous at times, but find it far more important that we're honest and trust each other than try to avoid those feelings.

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    No he doesnt. He thinks it's degrading women and thinks it's discussing that porn even exsists.


 

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