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    Quote Originally Posted by HugsBunny View Post
    Oh what a load of rot!!! CSA is now a money making scheme?? Are you serious?!!!
    SSSNNNNNOOOOORRRRTTTTTT!!!
    GOLD!
    Keep going LMF. Your lack of knowledge is fascinating.

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    Quote Originally Posted by faroutbrusselsprout View Post
    SSSNNNNNOOOOORRRRTTTTTT!!!
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    Keep going LMF. Your lack of knowledge is fascinating.
    And an endless source of amusement LOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Atropos View Post
    And drag your new wife, subsequent kids etc with you. Change jobs, move to areas you don't want to live in, spend money needlessly to follow around your ex. Let her each whim dictate your life. How on earth is that fair?
    I get what you are saying, and on one hand I agree, but by not letting her move (I'm unsure of the reasons, but generally the custodial parent might get a better job, need to move for cheaper rent etc etc) isn't the custodial parent being dictated to by the non custodial? Are they then not at the whim of the father?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cheerilee View Post
    Oh I know. It is not only mums who alienate children from fathers. Fathers can do a damm good job of it as well.

    I did not see my children for 9 months due to their father taking them. So I know this. I have been through family court hell for the last 18 months. I paid child support and legal bills. My children are now with me, I fought for them. He now pays no child support as he can't afford.

    At the end of the day it depends on how much you are willing to fight I guess.
    Well, I'm sure my husband would take great offense to this. He fought tooth and nail, but it was too late. Ex had abducted daughter without his knowing to another state, by the time he managed to find them it was 2 years later... Daughter was already "settled" in day care.... Court decided it was "unfair" to uproot her and move back....

    It was unfair for the mother to uproot her in the first place and kidnap her away from all family and friends but the judge didn't care about that.

    As a result my husband has to pay ALL Costs associated with travelling to another state, all child support costs and barely sees his daughter a few times a year.

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    The court didn't decide that because it was unfair on the mother though Happy2b3, they decided it because of the impact it would have had on the child.

    Isn't it a good thing that the children are who the courts care about?? Would it really have been better for the child had she been uprooted from what she was settled in to?? How upsetting for the child.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovemyfam View Post
    Many people think this but I dont agree, not all moms are fit to be moms just like all dads arent fit to be dads. I have known some women who have gotten custody of the kid and the dad was always a better parent once the court systems get out of the 50s it may improve.
    And who do all of your kids live with LMF? Have you offered to let their dad take them? Or did you just move them to a different country?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lovemyfam View Post
    GOod new though that they are looking at possibly changing the laws to be no visit no support but we will see how the politicians work that around. The CSA laws are flawed here and there are a lot of groups working to get them to work for the child. Having a child should not then destroy the chance of living a normal life after you and the parent split but here it does make it very hard to financially move on.

    Lets hope these new laws come into effect soon.
    Yay a new law for deadbeats who can say I don't want to see my child therefore I won't pay anything. I know you have issue with single mums using welfare, do you realise if every no good father did this, our govt would actually have to pay MORE to single parents to make up the shortfall in CS??

    Don't hold your breath, bc I doubt it will happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ItWasntMe View Post
    And who do all of your kids live with LMF? Have you offered to let their dad take them? Or did you just move them to a different country?
    Very interesting point…… though I imagine it was ok for lmf to move the kids away as their father didn't pay child support anyway (I'm assuming) so that makes it ok.

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    As for CSA being a business, they actually cost the Australian government more money last year to run then they distributed. I do not know of many businesses if any who could run like this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HugsBunny View Post
    The court didn't decide that because it was unfair on the mother though Happy2b3, they decided it because of the impact it would have had on the child.

    Isn't it a good thing that the children are who the courts care about?? Would it really have been better for the child had she been uprooted from what she was settled in to?? How upsetting for the child.
    The mother uprooted her in the first place!


 
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