Can I just make it clear that he isn't withholding child support at all? He has always paid it.. But just questioning how fair it is to pay extra due to lack of access when bio mum has set herself up nicely so the access is very difficult? He would never begrudge supporting his child. He just feels that things could be more amicable .. Which is understandable, given that both parents are supposed to have equal rights. To this day, there is still a terrible prejudice against fathers.