We were given a lt of Christmas and birthdays. Other than that my parents didn't have a lot of money. I would feel guilty asking for money I needed (like school excursions) and I certainly didnt get brand name clothes.
Now I'm very generous with gifts but struggle to spend on myself. I'm constantly asking "would I work x number of hours to have this?" or convert everything to amount of tins of formula.
On the flip side I have a friend from a very wealthy family. She got a new car for her 18th and lives an amazing life. Yet she's very down to earth about money and the least "bratty"person I know with a great work ethic. Her parents did a fantastic job