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    Too much info sorry

    God i am so lonely, i just wish i had friends...
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    Default Re: Lonely

    Apart from the holiday thing you sound exactly like I did 2 or 3 days ago. I know its hard not having someone to talk to but the girls and guys on bubhub were and are a godsend for me. I come here to feel "normal", to vent, chat about grown up stuff, not necessarily about wee and poo, and to escape from negative thinking. And the best thing. as far as I know I am anonymous. Well I hope no one has recognised me. I can vent til my hearts content.

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    Default Lonely

    I need friends too. Seems the ones I make always move away.

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    Thanks for the messages I'm sorry I haven't replied I have kind of shut myself off... I found the switch and now I feel numb - but better if that makes sense ? Have have a wonderful partner and my dd is the love of my life what else do I need? I will get through this - I always do and I know there are so many more people out there who are worse off then me, it's nice to know people have cared enough to take the time to respond and share their own private feelings.. Thank you it's nice to know that you are not alone xxx

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    Default Let's start a Friendship Project.

    Btmac, I had something similar happen to me 3 years ago. Looking back, although it hurt, I realise now that it was the best thing that happened to me. I'd rather be alone than have false friends. And alone I am! Well, in terms of female friends I am. And it used to bother me...a lot. And I guess if I was to say aloud, "I don't have any friends.." then I'd probably cringe a bit but overall it's just the way life is for me at the moment. And it's a place a lot of people find themselves in. OP, yes some people have it worse off and some don't but that doesn't invalidate your experience or lessen it somehow. I have recently started going to Zumba classes to offset some of the stress I currently have in my life. And guess what, the class is full of friendly women! So I'm learning to dance and I'm in contact with people. And that's a start. Can you get to a library? Or a book club? These are my next targets. I've got to stop being so self conscious and get out there. I salute you all. Let's start a Friendship Project!

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    Default Re: Lonely

    i also lost a friend of over 20years recently which was very sad.
    when my twins were a couple of months old i joined a new mothers group and they have been my saviour and have formed some strong friendships...would highly recommend it

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    I used to be lonely as a single, stay at home mum.
    Do you go to playgroups or somewhere esle you can meet others? The friends I have now are mainly from work or uni, getting out totally changed my life.
    Hope you can find something you can enjoy that gets you out meeting people

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    Liney, I tried joining two mothers' groups.
    The people in there were obsessed with their phones, cars, vaccinations and were too posh to push. I got away from them as fast as my little legs could carry me.

    It's nice to hear of positive stories regarding this.

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    Liney, I tried joining two mothers' groups.
    The people in there were obsessed with their phones, cars, vaccinations and were too posh to push. I got away from them as fast as my little legs could carry me.

    It's nice to hear of positive stories regarding this.


 

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