So, as it says I am 20 weeks with number 3 who is the result of contraception failure. DH had the referral on the fridge for the snip and I could just see the light at the end of the tunnel when I git a BFP. Anyway, I have concerns about how I'll feel when bub gets here. Will I feel like they're intruding on what I considered perfect for our family? Will I resent the financial impact it will make? I cried for 3 months and am just now kind of looking forward to the whole thing but feel nothing like I did with very planned DD and DS. Has anyone else been in this position?