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    Default IVF babies due July/August/September 2013

    I am 14weeks 4 days and not as tired as I was but still feeling it by the end of the day.
    Can't stop ladies it's breakfast time for the monkey! :-)

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    Hi Ladies,

    I've been wondering if I should share this with you all but I've decided to, if only to give you an explanation as to why you wont hear from me again. So here goes....I'm sorry if it upsets some of you, especially those that haven't reached 12 weeks yet. But remember - this is a very rare occurence.
    We had our 12 week scan yesterday and all looked great. Bubs was jumping around, giving us a wave and measurements were great. I was so relieved...but that was short lived. She sent me to the toilet so she could do a vaginal ultrasound as bubs was on the move so much she couldn't get a clear picture of the heart. I came back in joking with DP about how it must take after mum -being so active. He laughed and said "no wonder you're so hungry all the time"
    She came in and after a bit the Doctor followed and thats when the mood changed.
    It seems our baby's heart has not formed properly. To the point where it will be fatal out side the womb. He said it was still so early so hard to see exactly but he thinks the left ventricle is pretty much non existent. ie - not fixable.
    We rushed off to our obs and were given the news again and I think it sunk in further. So we've tried to get into a specialist but he wont see us until 15 weeks as he wont make a call until the heart is formed further.
    I'm not sure how I get through another 3 weeks carrying our precious baby.
    Then what do we do? Bubs is so happy inside me, it's when I give birth that he/she wont be able to survive.
    So yeh....we're both numb, angry and so so incredibly sad for it to have come to this after 5 tries of IVF and finally getting there. I'm sure I must have been an awful person in a past life
    So, I'm signing off and I'm going to try and deal with this as best I can. I'm sure there are reasons for this happening and there is a spiritual journey for me to take from here. I just need to go and connect with my baby, my man and myself - somehow, through all the pain.
    I hope all of you go on to have safe, healthy and happy pregnancies.
    I really do wish you all the very best
    KJ xo

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    KJ my heart breaks for you! Wishing you all the best at this difficult time xxxx

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    Kj so sorry you have both have to go through this I can't imagine how hard it is for you and your husband ... Brought tears to my eyes just reading your post. I wish you and your husband all the best and never blame yourself and don't give up! my thoughts are with you and your husband xoxo 😘

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    Kj, so sorry to hear this, my thoughts are with you & good luck with whatever decision you have to make

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    kayjayehoping1 My heart goes out for you. I know how hard it is going to be in the next 3 weeks. Being in limbo is not the greatest place. Good luck with whatever decision you have to make.

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    KJ - I am devestated for you. I can only imagine the pain you and your DP are going through right now. Such horrible and unfair news. Please look after each other. Thinking of you xx

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    KJ words cant describe your situation & I just wanted to say Im thinking of you & your fella xxxx

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    KJ - I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Stay strong and look after eachother and make sure you get the professional support you need. Thinking of you. xxx

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    KJ - I, like the others, am SO sad to read your news. Thank you for sharing and letting us know. Never feel you can't! You, your man and your precious bub are in my thoughts and prayers. Look after yourself. xo

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