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    Default For the ladies doing ivf...

    ok so for all that don't no me i have just had one of the hardest cycles for myself and i have been super sad about it and i just want to get past it!
    Well i need to take a break because we need to save money and while i was sitting here trying my best to cheer myself i decided that this is it, i just need to move on and i need to be happy in my life now i have spent the last 2 or so years being sad for what i don't have and putting every drop off energy into helping myself get that one thing and it has totally drained me and all the good things in my life i have just let pass me by and not enjoyed these moments!
    so now its time, its time for me to love my life NOW and love what i have now yes i still want a baby so very much and im still going to try but i think its time i appreciate what i have got so i thought this could be a spot that myself and any other person could write down that totally awesome things in there life RIGHT NOW!
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    i have a wonderful husband who i love dearly and who is my rock and best friend
    i have the cutest lil dog who is an awesome companion
    i am fit and healthy
    i have a great family who supports me every step of the way

    there are some for me so far will add more hope some other ladies can join in would love to share the positive vibe!

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    I'm feeling the same as I muzzy. I had a miscarriage a year ago and have had 2 failed cycles BUT...... I have a loving partner and family and I have just completed my Uni degree!!!!!!

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    well done bethy!!! what have u done you uni degree in?

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    Lovely idea Muzzy. And I am sorry for your recent disappointment. You are so right. Life seems to be completely on hold and you feel like you will never be happy unless the baby dream is realised. Perspective gets lost and we need to remind ourselves of everything good that we have. So in that spirit...
    I have the most loving, supportive husband who is my best friend and would do anything for me;
    My family share all our ups and downs and help us stay positive. They also assist us financially to achieve our dreams;
    I feel very lucky to be so loved.

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    I have awesome ppl who I work with that help me through everything!

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    I now have a bachelor of social work :-)

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    Yay how exciting!!

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    How funny. I'm a social worker Bethy! You'll love it

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    Oh cool! Where do u work??? There r no social work jobs anywhere!!!! I would love to work in child safety :-)

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    I manage a counselling team in Vic. Are you in QLD cos you called it child safety? I wouldn't have thought you'd have any problems getting a job with them. Did you do your placement with them? I bet it has been a good distraction for you doing your study. Now you have a new job to put your energy into so this IVF stuff doesn't become all you think about.

    Muzzy- how long do you think before you've saved for your next cycle?


 

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