For years BM has been sending dss here with nits- despite my complaining and begging for DH to Stand up to her he doesn't- occasionally sends her a text but she never does anything about it.
Anyway she had another baby about a year ago and she must have combated the nits in her nesting phase as we haven't had nearly as much drama since then.
Well apparently last week we sent dss back to bm with nits and boy did we cop it.
No one else in this house has nits.
Now every other time dss has had nits I've bought the treatments an done his hair and washed everything he has come in contact with.
So the one week I do nothing about it (due to being in bed sick and not knowing anything about it and I'm sceptical that he even had them)
Now she sent us an abusive message and I said to DH tell her it's karma and to get f**ked (as that's the response we got if we raise any issue with her)
And did he?
No- he has run off and got treatment to do dss hair!!!
When I questioned him he said "it's ok for u to complain but I'm not having her do it"