I have never minded taking my own meat ON ONE CONDITION....and that is that I get to eat MY meat that I brought. I have brought what I felt like before and it was all cooked up and served on a big communal plate and didnt get what I brought. Was stupid Lol
So na, I wouldnt be offended but I also wouldnt ask if it was a party...a small gathering of friends is fine but a party suggests alot more people and Id cater in that situation. Id tell everyone we are cooking sausages and basic steaks and people are free to bring their own fancy cuts or chicken steaks if they wish to have that instead.