I don't know what I should be doing!
My little man is 30 months. So far I have just been letting him develop at his own rate. We haven't really started toilet training yet as he doesn't really seem interested at all, he still sucks a dummy all the time, he still has a bottle of milk a couple of times a day and he goes through phases with his sleep either self settling or needing me to lay with him. I don't want to rush him to grow up. If he's interested in something then we expand on it. He can count to 15, can sing at least 3 nursery rhymes, knows at least 4 colours. He talks to us about a lot of different things and is an active little boy.
The reason I'm so confused is because I keep getting told by a close friend that he should be toilet training if not trained completely like her son (the same age), he shouldn't have a dummy, he shouldn't use a bottle, etc etc etc
I thought I was doing the right thing by letting my little guy develop at his own rate not pushing him but now I don't know.
What do other parents do? Do you push your little ones at all? I just want what's best for my little man.