What would you do if you had a partner who hadn't worked for the past two years (since Nov 2010). In the meantime, you've had a baby together, gone back to work when said baby was 6 months old, to support the family on your parttime wage. Your DP does do some household chores and looks after the baby while you are at work. But he doesn't do many chores, the house is always a mess. He also doesn't do a great job looking after your dd as he is addicted to online gaming ad plays about 12 hours per day. Because if the online gaming other parts if you relationship, eg, spending quality time together fall to the wayside. You constantly tell him you are unhappy, try to help him find a job, but eventually give up.
Eventually you get your act together and leave with your dd.
a moth later you find out you are 8 weeks pregnant. You tell your ex and he is over the moon. He sees it as his second chance. He is really sorry he has lost his family and wants to do anything to get them back. He enrolled into TAFE, starts a course to become a taxi driver and writes letter of apology to your parents for past wrongs that he has done towards them.
You on the other had are really unhappy with being pregnant. You barely coped with the first pregnancy due to stress from your partners and parents fights. You also had a hard time bonding and coping with a baby as you felt unsupported, torn between parents and partner and super stressed. You are having a hard time adjusting as a single parent and are exhausted. You don't know if you can cope with another pregnancy and baby all on your own. Also there is pressure from your parents, to stay away from your ex and pressure from your ex, to get back together as a family when he sorts out his life.
Would you keep the baby or would you terminate?