Do you enjoy having friends/people over/playdates at your house?
To be completey honest, ive come to the conclusion i hate having people over.
Today i had a playdate at my house for dd, i dont see this friend often at all because she's waaaaay to busy and stuff. Anyways, she instisted she come over to my house for the morning. Needless to say, i freaked out and spent the entire 2 days beforehand cleaning this house from top to bottom. I dont even know why i do it!
I dont enjoy having to remember to offer food, drinks.
Im just not a natural entertainer. I always feel awkward when people come over to my house and i think they sense it. I cant relax.
When people come over for dinner, it's a long night. When they eventually leave around 11pm dh and i are that buggered, we both say to eachother "i hate having people over!"
I have a friend who will drop in un-announced occasionally, which is undesired but i dont really care. She will pop in, make herself and me a cuppa, get her kid a bikkie or whatever and sit on the couch and help me fold the nappies ect while we chat. It's only for about 20-30mins then she's gone lol. I enjoy these little visits so much better. No preparation. no planning. No forced conversation. Just simple yet enjoyable.
Anyways, im rambling now.
I hate cleaning up after people and getting my house back to how it was.
Anyone else not enjoy having to be the entertainer and have people over at their house?