I'm Jackie, new here,
Bit of a Back Story
I've been TTC since I had my Implanon (no period for 3 years, yay) removed on April 23rd. Before that I was on the pill (Leven ed) since I was 13 for heavy painful periods. so over 10 years.
I'm overweight, however no Endo (had this checked) no PCOS as fair as a know,
Since the Implanon removal, I've had fairly regular cycles around 30 to 35 days, However my cycle in June was 46 Days then AF, August was a neat 30 days and my Current cycle is now at 57 days long no AF yet. I have been doing HPT each week since 35 days (my period being due) and BFN every time.
Since Sunday I have had some strong cramping come and go(just like my period cramps) and feeling slightly sick (not enough to vomit, just sick) all day Sunday and Monday and this morning. This morning my boyfriend of 4 years and I had a little argument nothing major the weather is weird in Adelaide (hot one minute and raining thunderstorms the next) at the moment and its hard to sleep so we are both tired, but I burst in to tears and cried on and off for over an hour, I hardly ever cry, last time I cried was over 2 months ago and that was a few tears for around 10 mins. This was outright bawling and sobbing.
I have had no symptoms until Sunday morning.
Could I have O'd late and now am pregnant?
We BD regularly all cycle around every 2 days (except during AF) maybe more often on weekends. (sorry if TMI) So there would have been waiting sperm for the egg.
I'm planning waiting until the 19th of Nov to see the Doc, If no AF and counting that 46 days was my longest cycle, on the 19th will be 2 cycles with no AF, Still HPT testing every week in the morning
Should I go sooner?
I had some spotting on 12th(CD32),13th(33),14th(34) of Oct, Which I thought was AF but nothing happened and 1st of Nov (CD52), Both time it was just a few dots on the toilet paper not enough a pad.
I'm just confused and really trying not to get my hopes up.
My Boyfriend thinks he has dud sperm (his words lol) he's previous relationship broke down because they were TCC and she couldn't get pregnant. His ex already had a child (a toddler i think), and his 'man' reasoning is that if he could get a lady that already had a kid pregnant he must have dud sperm. He wont get tested though, I think its pride getting in the way.
Anyways this was way long then I expected, and at least I stopped crying. I hope you gals can shed some light on this situation.