My partners father has just died an when he died I was 10 weeks pregnant it has now been 5 weeks and my partner has moved back his mums for 2 months and I'm left to fend for myself. His mother has taken control of him and has such a tight leash on him he wot come home. I am really worried about what's going to happen I don't know if I am being selfish by saying I don't want him there and want him with me. We are both quite young and it has taken a massive toll on partner but all of it is taking its toll on me. My bubba is growing so is my belly and I'm by my self I have such after support system with my family and my friends but I need my partner. Am I being selfish or is it reasonable for me to want him to be apart of this babies development as he was adopted and it's the first blood relation he gets to meet. If anyone has been in this situation I would love to know how you handled it and if I'm being selfish.