I'm nearly 17 weeks preg with #2, and while I'm excited about a new baby, I don't feel a real connection with this pregnancy. With DS I had a strong feeling he was a boy from very early on (we didn't find out until birth though) and being my first I had all the excitement of preparing a nursery, getting furniture and buying a few newborn bits and pieces.
I didn't want to find out the gender again this time, because it really doesn't matter to me, but I'm wondering if I do if I'll feel a little more connected. ATM all I can think about is how I'm going to cope with a 2yo and a newborn and how I'm going to turn DS's life upside down
So I would be interested to hear from those that have perhaps been in a similar situation and found out the gender and if you think it helped you bond?