Sorry about potential TMI. I am 30 weeks pregnant with our first baby and have never really considered the thought of an elective c-section until the last couple of weeks.
I have always had a very tight/uncomfortable vagina, it took DH and I about 6 months and a gynie visit to actually be able to achieve penetration for the first time and it has always remained kind of painful with occasional tears.
The tearing and pain has definitely gotten worse with being pregnant and I now tear again pretty much every time we DTD.
My OB has told me that bub is quite big and her head was measuring in the 95% at 21 weeks. Seeing as how DH and I need to use IVF to have bubs s3x for us needs to be a pleasure thing. I am becoming really worried that I will tear severely with the birth of our baby and it will affect our s3x life moving forward (it's something we always have to work on anyway cause I have a super low s3x drive). I'm not scared of birth but I really couldn't bear the thought of permanently destroying our sex life.
Am I being stupid??