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    I am so so sorry to hear of your loss

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    Default No heartbeat ..... 20 wks :( :( need adice

    You sound like your in a space that will be able to get you through this very emotional time. So sorry. I hope it is ok for you and your little angel is set free.

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    Oh you poor thing, so very sorry to hear such sad news You & your family are in my thoughts xx

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    Default No heartbeat ..... 20 wks :( :( need adice

    I'm so sorry for your little ones passing.

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    Default No heartbeat ..... 20 wks :( :( need adice

    I'm sorry for ur loss! Sending you and your family LOVE light & blessings xo

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    Hi ladies
    Just an update from hospital .. All is calm & somewhat well. I havnt had the drugs yet.. so just waiting patiently for it all to start.. They've offered counciling.. But I don't know what they can say that you ladies havnt already told me.. I checked out heartfelt but they don't do babies before 20wks and my baby died at 15 wks they preferred not to however the hospital will take photos and we can spend as long as we like with our baby, even have them spend the night with is I'm just sad as this is very surreal.. Our 6 yo dd has asked to see the baby. We'll see what the baby looks like before we make a decision ..
    I just feel soo sad that we are at the end of our family making road . I wish the last 6 moths had been completely different and I wld maybe at ease by now with not extending our family.. Our 6 yo is absoutly devastated.. She's very sensitive, I told her to just cry. & ask any questions she may have .. I told her we will stay a family of 4... Thanks again for alll your well wishes & kind thoughts

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    Default Re: No heartbeat ..... 20 wks :( :( need adice

    Hi grace
    I am so sorry for your loss I can't even begin to imagine what you and your family are going through.
    My sister lost her little boy last year at 21wks and was put in contact with a counselling service called teddy love club now known as pregnancy loss Australia. They not only do counselling for the parents but older siblings and extended family. They have helped her and her hubby so much but also the grandparents. They may have some ideas on how to help your daughter

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    I am so sorry, I can't even begin to imagine the nightmare you are living right now. I wish there was someway I could ease your pain

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    Just has my 1st dose of mifepristone .. Been waiting since 8am.. I asked for Valium to try n relax me but the said I can have perhadine to try n help me sleep tonight.. Justice waiting ... I want to start the recovery process .. Get rid of slllll bsby items ... Repaint the room then desperate the girls again .. I know things happen for a reason .. But why get this far into my pregnancy .. I could have dealt with all these emotional/anger issues 6 months ago.., I feel anxious too as to what people will say .. We won't be trying again ... This was out final attempt.. I want to cleanse my mind my clearing out allll the baby things wervwere holding into .. I look at my stomach and i just see it as fat now.. Not a bsby .. I don't need to worry about eating or bending the right way.. I think I'll be back at work on Monday .. I work for myself & so I kinda have to get straight back into things.. My heart is broken yet life goes on.. A funeral .. Buriel.. Having a priest come out.. All these things really didn't think I would have to think about .. On one hand I think ohhh next time ill be extra cautious .. Paranoid... But there will be NO next tine .. The train ends here @ I have to desk with that on top of everything else .. Sooooo much for in uneventful pregnancy !!!!!!!!!!

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    Default No heartbeat ..... 20 wks :( :( need adice

    Thoughts arewithyou


 

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