+ Reply to Thread
Page 11 of 11 FirstFirst ... 91011
Results 101 to 104 of 104
  1. #101
    BH-KatiesMum's Avatar
    BH-KatiesMum is offline Community Manager
    Winner 2008 - The most optimistic poster
    Winner 2014 - Most Helpful Moderator
    Join Date
    Oct 2007
    Location
    Perth WA
    Posts
    22,393
    Thanks
    5,359
    Thanked
    5,806
    Reviews
    3
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 postsEmerald Star - 10,000 postsRuby Star - 15,000 postsDiamond Star - 20,000 posts
    Awards:
    Past Moderator
    200 Posts in a week100 Posts in a week
    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    Hi Grace,
    I'm only a senior member because I have a big mouth (a lot to say), not because Im technically savvy with how the threads work

    I'm thinking you could copy and paste your posts from this section into your journal. Perhaps there is some way the moderators can merge this thread with your journal. I'll report your post to the mods (just to get their attention, not because you've done anything wrong. Hopefully they can better advise you).
    Hi Grace

    You are certainly most welcome to copy and paste your posts into your personal journal. We cant merge posts that easily - but copying and pasting into your journal is an easy way for your friends to keep up with where you are at.

    Many . I am so sorry for your loss

  2. #102
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Posts
    78
    Thanks
    4
    Thanked
    4
    Reviews
    0
    I'm so sorry for what you have gone through

    I've had miscarriages at 12 weeks and 16 weeks - both times they were missed miscarriages, but luckily I found out only a couple of days after the babies had passed.

    I felt like I just couldn't cope with my 16 weeks loss. We didn't have a funeral and I opted for a D&E (although since they still had to give me the medicine to dilate me I ended up actually delivering him naturally moments after I was knocked out). I then also opted for a post mortem to see if they could find a reason - they couldn't. Sometimes I regret not seeing him and holding him, but at the time I knew that it would have just broken me and I feel like the image I have in my head of him is what I was to remember him by.

    Since then, I have also had a chemical.

    It's not easy, I sometimes wonder if I'll ever be able to move on x

  3. #103
    Join Date
    Jan 2006
    Posts
    736
    Thanks
    19
    Thanked
    106
    Reviews
    0
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Hi Ginny..
    My heart sooo breaks for you... I can sympathize with All your emotions !!! I had tears reading your post.. 2 mc and they say " it's just one of those things " but how can that be ?? All the what if's ... And what could have beens.. And then to have a chemical .. its hard to put into words how we feel .. Loss after loss... The affect it puts on us .. On Every aspect of our life we analyze.. and then re self analyze our means for being here .. ( well this is how I feeel, a constant battle of mind games !!! )

    Have they any any testing on you or your partner ?? Anything come back from autopsy ??

    Were you able to receive any counseling through the hospital ?? That must of been a heart breaking decision to go in for a D&E.. A boy??It breaks my heart when they don't recognize a pregnant till after 20wks .., because those first 20 are just as important and life changing ..
    My due date is impeding quickly and I feel like I'm relapsing back.. I've been off and on meds which doesn't help.. But I feel like I havnt made any progress and this is how I'll be for the rest if my life & that I shld just accept it.. With my sadness, envy, anger, self esteem issues blah blah blaaaaaaahhhh !!!!

    Oh thank you for sharing your story... xxxx


 

Similar Threads

  1. Heartbeat @ 5w 2d
    By happychick1385 in forum Pregnancy & Birth General Chat
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 26-11-2012, 14:23
  2. Low hcg - Will they see a heartbeat?
    By kylieboo in forum Pregnancy & Birth General Chat
    Replies: 17
    Last Post: 02-03-2012, 16:08
  3. Heartbeat
    By FingersxCrossed in forum Pregnancy & Birth General Chat
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 16-02-2012, 11:00

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

reviews
learn how you can become a reviewer!

competitions

forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
BAE The Label
Versatile, premium maternity wear that you will love throughout pregnancy and long after. Cleverly designed for for all stages of motherhood so that you can 'Just be you (+1)'.
sales & new stuffsee all
Bub Hub Sales Listing
HAVING A SALE? Let parents know about it with a Bub Hub Sales listing. Listings are featured on our well trafficked Sales Page + selected randomly to appear on EVERY page
featured supporter
Pea Pods Reusable Nappies
Pea Pods are the smart choice when it comes to choosing what's best for you, your baby and the environment. Affordable and simple to use, Pea Pods keep your baby dry & happy. Visit our website to find your nearest stockist or order online.
gotcha
X

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!