I would forgive, if he was remorseful and showed an effort to repair the marriage. I have forgiven much worse than a kiss.
Very hard situation! I have been cheated on before and it absolutely killed me but I forgave and but then just was never the same ever again and ended up ruining the whole relationship anyways :/ If he just kissed her it would make me feel unloved and it would just keep playing in the back of my mind so either way whether I ended it or not I would still be gutted and would never be able to trust him again....
No over stepped the line in my book ....
I think that the problem we make too many excuses.
" Oh it was only this it was only that "
"What do you expect he is a man that's what men do" .....bull****....
No I couldn't. I'd want to, it would be so much easier to just forgive and forget and carry on as though nothing had changed, but I know myself and I could nor would ever trust him again and I can't live in a relationship without trust. I know I would just punish him forever and make the both of miserable.
Last edited by Mathermy; 19-06-2013 at 17:04.
I'd kick him out. No second chances.
Nope, I don't think I could get past it.
I used to say cheating of any kind was a deal breaker. That person would be out the door and never allowed back in my life! Then, it actually happened. He broke up with me on our 1st child's due date to be with the person... 6months later we were back together and now have 3 babies.
But like the quote.
Trust is like a mirror, you can fix it if broken but you will always see the cracks, it will never be what it was before.
(I didn't quote that correctly but you get where I'm going, I hope!)
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