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    Default Re: Househusbands and cheating, would you forgive?

    I don't think I could forgive. He made a commitment to me and if he realises he can get away with just a kiss then what could happen next time?
    It would be really hard to walk away, I think I would find it easier to forgive but I would never forget so I would try to walk away. But who knows if I was actually faced with that situation. Fingers crossed none of us ever do need to face that.

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    Default Househusbands and cheating, would you forgive?

    I would forgive and get over a kiss. I wouldn't upend My family and life just because my husband made a mistake and met lips with someone else.

    If he engaged in a emotional affair I would walk, but not over a bit of tonsil
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    Default Househusbands and cheating, would you forgive?

    I would forgive.

    What is there for me to win by not forgiving and ending a many long and happy years wedding?!
    I don't understand how ONE kiss can overrule all the other things my husband has done for many years to prove me his trusts, love and loyalty

    This seems rather crazy to me.

    If I was the one who kissed, I hope my husband would find the strength in his heart to forgive me and live by his vows. I know that wouldn't be easy but so much more worth than a messy and silly divorce...

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    Default Househusbands and cheating, would you forgive?

    My xh kissed another woman. I forgave him. He then cheated in me repeatedly for the rest if our marriage.

    For me personally, I wouldn't forgive a spouse again if he kissed someone else.

    Every situation is different though. I love HH so they should get back together lol.

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    Default Househusbands and cheating, would you forgive?

    I would never be able to forget about it ever. It would consume me. So in that case it would be over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lili81 View Post
    I would forgive.

    What is there for me to win by not forgiving and ending a many long and happy years wedding?!
    I don't understand how ONE kiss can overrule all the other things my husband has done for many years to prove me his trusts, love and loyalty

    This seems rather crazy to me.

    If I was the one who kissed, I hope my husband would find the strength in his heart to forgive me and live by his vows. I know that wouldn't be easy but so much more worth than a messy and silly divorce...
    While every situation would be different, I know of more than one woman who would tell you they wished they'd never overlooked the first "minor" indiscretion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lili81 View Post
    I would forgive.

    What is there for me to win by not forgiving and ending a many long and happy years wedding?!
    I don't understand how ONE kiss can overrule all the other things my husband has done for many years to prove me his trusts, love and loyalty

    This seems rather crazy to me.

    If I was the one who kissed, I hope my husband would find the strength in his heart to forgive me and live by his vows. I know that wouldn't be easy but so much more worth than a messy and silly divorce...
    While every situation would be different, I know of more than one woman who would tell you they wished they'd never overlooked the first "minor" indiscretion.

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    Default Househusbands and cheating, would you forgive?

    I know how precious a marriage is and it is worth more than a kiss.

    But if he's at it again then it's a different story isn't it.
    Would def give the benefit of the doubts though and worry about the next indiscretion when and IF it happens

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lili81 View Post
    I know how precious a marriage is and it is worth more than a kiss.

    But if he's at it again then it's a different story isn't it.
    Would def give the benefit of the doubts though and worry about the next indiscretion when and IF it happens
    Well lets be honest, you dont know how precious everyone else's marriage is and whether its worth more than a kiss to them.

    Unless he and the woman just bumped into each other and accidentally kissed then I find it very hard to believe there wasn't some kind of emotional affair going on prior to the kiss. And for most women, that would be what they struggled to get past.

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