ok, I was sitting at home at about 2pm when i hear my dh's car turn up. I think that is weird as he has a 9-5 job in the city, and never comes home early.
He walks in and I ask if he is ok, as I thought he may have come home sick. Yes, he says, I actually have not been to work today i took a sickie. I said Oh, wow, where have you been. He said that he left home about 11 am and just went to the shops etc. ( I had to leave home at 7.30 this morning as i had a million appointments).
I got annoyed at him, not for taking a sickie, but because he took one and did not tell me. I said to him that it is a "respect thing" and it is what a married couple does (we have been married for 17 years by the way lol) he said it would not have made any difference to my day if he went to work or not and he did not know what the big deal was..... (it would have, he could have watched the kids while i went to my appointments)
Do u think that i have a right to be annoyed? Be honest!!