This is a conversation that never should have been started!
SAHM vs career... A stay at home mum does have a career, just a different type of career then what you have.
I'm a work at home mum, I get both lots of comments...
"When are you going to stop playing with flowers and get a real career"
and then I get "don't you think missing Saturdays with your daughter is going to cause problems down the line, she's only this age once"
pfft, can't win no matter what!