Wanting some honest opinions please.
I have been with my husband for 10 yrs (married for nearly 3). We have a 19mth old little boy who is the absolute joy of my life
My Husband has always been jealous and insecure often accusing me of deceiving him or cheating etc, wanting to look at phone bills and at times quite paranoid. Of course I am
not perfect, not in any way but I've never cheated or betrayed him in any way yet this has been the cause of much friction but I've put it down to issues stemming from nothing to do with me.
Recently he won an all expenses paid trip to Las Vegas for a week and decided to use holiday time to stay for an extra week. He was a little bit strange on the phone for a couple of the days and also wrote me an email asking me to come clean about cheating on him a couple of years ago?!? I figured he was a long way from home and that was making him act weirdly and didn't bite.
Today a message chimed through on his iPhone from Facebook and he was cooking so I read it out to him, there was also a friend request from a pretty girl and when I read her name out he says he'd never heard of her yet when I clicked on her profile there was Las Vegas photos everywhere so obviously he does know her? I didn't say much about it until our son went to bed and then after dinner I asked if he was going to tell me who she is and why did he lie about knowing her? He blew up immediately and started shouting at me to leave it and to shut the f$&k up. To me it seems like he is defensive but I could be reading more into something very innocent I just don't know why he said he'd never heard of her? Sorry for the long post, I just want some impartial opinions, am I being silly or should I be concerned? I'm not a jealous or suspicious person at all but something in my stomach is telling me all is not ok.