So young, no control, feeling stressed and upset with no avenue to turn to so sometimes it turns to self harm, other drinking/drugs/s3x.
Everything seems like the end of the world - things devastate young girls that we can now as adults just shrug off. It's only as an adult and eg when you have children that you realise this, that those things didn't matter. But again to a girl her age- they seem huge. As friends, looking nice, boys etc are everything.
I hope she's ok.