Hugs poida - I know the feeling
Feeling a bit frustrated today, got a +opk on the 16th & temp dip made me think I was Oing on the 17th. But on the 18th it dropped even lower, barely rose much yesterday, now a significant jump this morning. I didn't have any more opks so couldn't test to see if I was still getting a positive.
So I think I Oed on the 18th or 19th - prob is, we haven't dtd since the 17th & hubby has low numbers, so I don't think there's much chance for there to be many hanging around if we don't dtd on O day I feel peeved that hubby wasn't up to bding the last couple of days, missing our best chance, and bad that I feel that way!