For those of you separated or not in a relationship with FOB at birth time - did you have them present? Was it weird or strange?
DH hasn't asked yet and I don't even know if we will be back together by the time by bub arrived - although I seriously doubt it at this stage so trying to get as prepared as possible.
But if he wants to be, I don't know how I feel about that. I think I should only have supportive people there for ME in my time of need. But then I don't want to deprive him of being there when his baby enters this world.
Was it weird or uncomfortable having an ex watch you in your most vulnerable state? Or were they waiting outside until after bub was born to come in? Or did you just call when it was all over?