Thanks sage, will maybe consider telling family on wend. DH said its up to me as I'm the one carrying so I have to be comfortable telling people. My bibs arrived for my sister and sil on Monday, they are so cute. That's how we will tell them as they are both expecting. One for sil says 'I love my cousin' and the one for my sister who is due any day now says 'I'm going to be a big cousin'. Did anyone have a special way of telling their parents...?