Fx for bfp for you Toni!!
Toni- fx for you, you've done well to hold out so long!
Shelby and waiting hoping-hope ur both feeling better!
Afm- today wasn't much better than yesterday. Felt so down all day and struggled to get things done. Everything ok between me and DH but can't shake the depression today! Not like me at all, can't even say what's wrong. Hoping to be back to normal tomorrow as got a day at home with DS so going to play group. Will need all my energy for that.
J i think ur right about the age gap and have thought often that when it comes to it i really won't mind and it won't matter in the slightest. It's just i had this ideal in my head and it's hard to shift.
We've decided to wait until after next month to decide what to do about our travel plans to the UK. If I'm not utd then we'll have to go sooner to avoid the no fly period after 36 wks which would fall right at the time of our planned trip if i got pregnant in Dec or Jan.
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Sorry to hear it isn't your month Bond girl. It's horrible how depressing it gets each month but I usually find I turn positive around cd3-4 and already to go again.
Hope you are all better now Shelby.
Waiting hoping - I'm a physio and my first instinct was shingles too. Sounds classic. Hope you feel better soon.
AFM - CD16 today. This is my 4th cycle since my mc and it seems like its back to how they used to be, yay!!!!! Heaps of EWCM the last 2 days which has my cycle a little longer but it used to fluctuate between 28 and 32 days so that's fine. Not charting or temping but I think I O'd today. Lots of DTD since Wed so we are in with a fighting chance. I'm so happy to have a more normal cycle back!!!!!!!!
Bondgirl - Never did I realise before ttc #2 just how much the age gap would affect me... I REALLY wanted a smaller gap (2 1/2-3 years max) but DH kept saying he wasnt ready and wanted a 3-4 year gap.. After my m/c last year (which had it have been a take-home bub there would have been a 2 1/2 year gap) it made me realise just how much I really wanted that smaller gap. Looking back now I should have tried harder to 'convince' DH to start ttc earlier cos I knew it would be a hard road, cos once I did get that BFP before the m/c, even though DH had felt before that he wasnt ready, he was so excited about that bubs, gutted when I m/c and took it really hard.
If I get utd this month there will be a 3 year 6 1/2 month gap between DD1 and bubs.. much as I worry about the gap, I know DD will be so ready for a baby brother/sister and a great helper, it will be more enjoyable for me I think. Sucks its not what I wanted, but theres always an up-side somewhere...
ToniS - I have NO idea how you are holding out so long to POAS!! Fx for tomorrow!!
Tormy - Fx for this cycle....
Shelby - are you testing this week?
rainbow - how did you go with choosing your donor??
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One thing I did do yesterday even though I'm not sure if I am utd is buy a baby rhino statue. Long story short DP and I were watching tv and saw someone named their son Fox, we were joking about using different animals as baby names and rhino actually goes really well with DP surname so we decided when we get utd baby will be refered to as rhino as we aren't going to find out gender. So when I saw this figurine I just had to have him.
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