ok, my mil was remarried b4 i got wid dp. and my kids' joint b'day party is comkin up at the start of nxt yr. my concern is this- my dp's step dad is so opinionated that his opinion is the only 1 that matters n that everyone else has 2 have the same as is, that's how i see it. n i'm really concerned that its gonna start a massive fight at the kids' party. i come from a family where i was raised to form my own opinion on a subject with wat info i was given and to respect everyone else's. n it bugs me to no end whenever i try to give my own opinion, especially around dp's stepdad, if its completely different to his. it sucks even more coz i get along with mil really well and i have alot of fun with her.
so, the problem i am putting out there is this- what should i do about dp's highly opinionated stepdad with the kids' b'day and make sure that his opinions don't start a fight?