But how do you send son/daughter to another country with no basic skills at all. As in didn't know how to boil a egg. They were blessed that dd and her friends took them under their wings and taught them. They would go shopping as a group so they understood what ingredients they needed and where to get them and went home and cooked together and lent them their stuff to cook with until they could get some of there own. I just don't understand it at all.