I had to post this on here as I was devastated by something my 4yo son said tonight, I am too embarrassed to talk to any of my friends about it, and I know my husband would just get mad.
I was undressing my 1yo son for his bath, and in the background my 4yo said "hold his head down." When I turned around and asked what he meant he replied "hold his head down in the bath so he drowns."
I calmly told my 4yo that it was not a nice thing to say and the he should never say anything like that OR do anything like that. I also asked him who told him something like that but he said no-one told him.
I have always had to watch my 4yo with his little brother. He has been known to push him over or play rough with him, or generally just do sneaky things to make him cry.
I am just not sure where to go with this.
Comments, opinions, ideas welcome.