I have two girls (5 and 3.5) delivered 37 and 35 weeks. I'm told if i have another it is likely that it will be 32 weeks.
My questions are,
how did you cope with a premmie and two older children?
Is it unfair to have a baby when when you know it will be very early? (unfair for you existing children and to the baby new baby)
How much pain does a premmie go through?
what did you do to ensure you go to spend enough time with your premmie and other children during the hospital stay?
Can your premmie go to childcare or is the risk of illness too high?
I always wanted lots of children. I really want another, but cant decide if it is the right thing to do (or wrong!)
btw - I get very severe cholestasis - that is the reason for the early delivery.
All advice is welcome :-) (pros and cons)