I want to start trying for my first baby hopefully in December of this year however I am on Topamax (Topirimate) for migraines and I know this is not recommended for pregnancy or breast feeding. Has anyone here been on this medication and had to to come of it? can they share there experiences I am going to see my neurologist as they will have to be the ones to ween me of the medication I am wondering if should also see an ob/gyn for this as well.
Also and this is a different issue my partner and I have postponed our wedding for 7 months from July 2013 to March 2014 due to financial reasons we recently bought a house and the repayments come first before a wedding we are committed to each other and really want to start our family so decided to start regardless of when the wedding was since making this decision I have been getting some negative reactions. Mostly people saying why did he ask you to marry him if your not going to get married or "you'll have the baby and never get married". It sounds silly but some comments are hurtful. Any advice?