Having some issues with dh at the moment, got a beautiful little girl who is 3, and at the moment things are like an emotional roller coaster, one minute my dh is happy and the next he is cranky and saying he is fed up. Have seriously considered leaving our marriage we have been together 8 years and married for 6. Its been great until our daughter really started talking more. Now she seems to make him cranky at stupid things, and other times he laughs if she says or does the same thing.
I dont want to walk out on something that is really special but at the same time, talking isnt getting me anywhere. Im happy to sit and talk but he is like an ostrich. Goes of or stops talking with me, and then when he gets home from work or going out he acts like everything is fine and doesnt really want to talk about it. I almost wish if its our marriage thats bothering him, even though it would really hurt if he wanted to leave that he would just say I think we should have a trial seperation, or I want to seperate. I guess I just wish I knew where I stood. At the moment all I feel is sick to the stomach. Anytime I think about it I just feel sick, and really dont want to do anything.
Any advice appreciated, I should point out I am happy with our family I dont want to walk out if I can avoid it, I just want to find out whats going on with him so I know if its something that can be worked on, or if its something that he needs to see a doctor about.