For people who have been to marriage Counselling, do you feel it helped and what goes on exactly?
DH and I have been together 13yrs realistically have a good marriage, lately just with life the way it is at the moment we have no time for each other, when we do get a minute we seem to be bickering the whole time. I feel like we don't ever solve anything so it always brings us to square one, he feels like we talk about things to much therefore over analysing things. (WTF!?!?)
After a big argument today, he spent his first nigh, in 13years, on the couch- his choice, I feel terrible but refuse to apologies because basically I feel it's all his fault.
although I could get a minute to talk to him now I feel like why should I have to be the grow up, when he is sulking like a child, but then I know this isn't helping I know I'm stubborn and like to push all the limits.
Anyway sorry about the ramble, the silent treatment we are giving each other has just got me feeling so sad. So I thought we should try marriage Counselling have been thinking it for a while, just to get us back on track communication wise. I mentioned it to a friend who laughed and said why in the world would you guys need that, so I don't know if I'm over reacting? As I don't even know what goes on at marriage counselling! I just feel we are not connecting lately.