My LO is 8 days old today and has slept with me on and off since I was still in hospital. She does settle in her bassinet during the day but at night she keeps waking every 2 mins and crying, I can pat her back to sleep but only for another 2 mins! Put her in bed next to me and she goes to sleep in 2 seconds and stays asleep. She might have a quick comfort nurse too but I haven't mastered latching laying down in the dark yet. The problem is DH doesn't want to bedshare. I love it, and love knowing she is content and happy, but he thinks its going to build bad habits, and even left the bed last night to sleep in the spare room as he was cranky with me having her in bed again.
I just want to give my little girl comfort, security and love. MY only concern is getting her into her own bed down the track.. But DH doesn't want to do it at all.
What do I do?